North Kent College welcomed Neil and the Neurocafe to our campus so the BBC could showcase the amazing things this course does for people with neurological conditions.
For the past three years, Neurocafe has offered a supportive space for people living with neurological conditions to connect, share experiences and rebuild confidence. Founded by Neil after his own recovery from brain tumour surgery, the group was created to fill a gap in emotional and psychological support. Which was lacking in the pyshcological rehabilitation services available, he was forced to rebuild his abilities alone.
One of the most remarkable stories to emerge from Neurocafe is Hugh’s. He was diagnosed with epilepsy as a baby following a haemorrhage. Hugh spent much of his life struggling with anger, depression and emotional instability. Niel remembers Hugh’s early days at Neurocafe: he would sit against the wall, staring straight ahead, unable to make eye contact or engage.
(Hugh's artwork pictured above)
Overtime, with specialist guidance and carful consultation with his neurologist and GP, High took on an active role in adjusting his medication. As the chemical imbalance stabilised, something extraordinary began to happen. The man who had been trapped behind an emotional barrier started to emerge – creative, sensitive, intelligent and artistically gifted. Hugh discovered talents in art and woodwork, developing an expressive style that now forms a core part of the group’s creative sessions. “He was stuck as a boy, emotionally”, explained Neil. “But we’ve uncovered a man who can think, do, create and communicate.”
Neil describes Hugh’s progress as transformative. Once withdrawn, Hugh now communicates clearly, both through conversation and his artwork. He has gained emotional insight, empathy and a renewed sense of identity. His journey continues to inspire others within the group, showing what is possible when support, understanding and lived experience come together.
The sense of shared experience is at the heart of the neurocafe community. Members often say that speaking with others who have similar diagnosis provides reassurance, hope and motivation. Seeing someone further along in their journey shows what is possible – and sharing struggles strengthens everyone. In this warm, supportive space, voices are heard, experiences are shared and lives are rebuilt.